Wednesday, December 19, 2012

pour yourself a drink, darling.

outfit
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 This is a bit more indicative of my style as of late. I've been dressing a little differently, experimenting with different looks and whatnot. Lately, my affinity for tight little numbers reminiscent of the 50's has taken center-stage. To hell with ‘oh, I can’t wear this because of my body..’ Yes, I still have occasional body blues, but by wearing what I feel pretty in instead of lamenting over how to best hide my body, I've grown more confident. Fashion should be fun, you know? And I seriously doubt that anyone out there is obsessing over my weight any more than I could have.

Everyone has insecurities, and for the longest time, mine has been my size. I'd be lying if I said I didn't wish that I was thinner, but honestly... if I really wanted to be thin THAT much, all I'd have to do would be to eat less and exercise more, and I haven't. No use whining about it, you know? In the meanwhile, I'm going to keep wearing tighter dresses and pushing myself out of my comfort zone. For so long, I tried to put myself in a box, but every day should be fun. Clothes are decoration, after all.

dress: ebay
cardigan: rave?
shoes: kohls
bag: flea market (gift from grandma)
lipstick: revlon 'raisin rage'

21 comments:

  1. You look HOT! There is no way you should be worrying about your weight - you have the perfect body for this dress. It looks amazing on you! Love the bag too :)

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  2. Ow ow! You look absolutely stunning, so keep on pushing that comfort zone! I completely relate with you and it's so refreshing to see a blogger who can push past body images issues and be confident in who they are, especially since we can all get stuck in those body dysmorphia ruts (it's pretty much a monthly routine for me haha). Thanks for being inspirational <3

    <3 Bri (www.comfyncurrent.blogspot.com)

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  3. Oh gosh girl! You look fab!! Absolutely stunning. You are so beautiful :).

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  4. You look fantastic in this! The shape suits you absolutely perfectly and I can't imagine it looking better on anyone else! That little cardi shows off your teeny waist too =) Super pretty!
    http://xrebelangelx.blogspot.co.uk/

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  5. You look so amazing girl!!! That dress just looks fabulous on you! I swear you look beautiful in anything!! Your hair looks so pretty too!!

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  6. Yes, this dress looks like it was made for you! :-)

    - October

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  7. Such a pretty outfit - as always! And, frankly, this kind of dress could never be worn by a skinny person - it needs curves!
    -Kati

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  8. It doesn't matter what your size is, Amber. That's not what defines you--your personality is, as cheesey as that sounds. :D No matter what, you're gonna have insecurities! I still worry about my weight even though I lost like 30 pounds... it's never gonna get any better unless you fix your mindset on it, which is hard, but I guess that takes a while. You're a confident young gal and you're beautiful, dear, so don't worry too much over silly things like that.

    Your dress is gorgeous, btw. You look lovely in all black. :D

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  9. um hello Marilyn! you pull this off SO well!!

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  10. i love the lip color you are wearing here!

    everything is about the mindset you have! you look great in this outfit and you just need to know that you do!

    lindsey louise

    hellomrrabbit.blogspot.com

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  11. Oh I relate so much to this. Being short means I've never been as skinny as taller, leaner girls, but I'm happy. And you look so gorgeous, this dress compliments your body brilliantly. You look so very elegant and sophisticated :D

    http://meggymoo0.blogspot.com

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  12. wow black is totally your colour <3 you look so stylish <3
    i wish i was short, to be honest :DD
    http://coeursdefoxes.blogspot.com/

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  13. I think you look totally gorgeous!

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  14. sorry if I'm posting double, not sure if it got through, but I think you look gorgeous!

    x
    Angie
    sundaybelle.com

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  15. I love your outfit! The whole look, really. I wish I could pull off red lipstick!

    Sarah=)

    www.etsy.com/shop/owleyevintage

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  16. touche missy. i've been mustering up the courage to try more fitted styles out, as well.

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  17. OH MY GOSH YOU LOOK FANTASTIC!! Forget the body blues, pretty lady. ALSO I wish I could pull off the dark lipstick, maybe I'll try it out today!

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  18. ME pasa igual , pero yo como debido a la ansiedad que padezco ... ademas de que tener bebes no ayuda mucho a tu cuerpo :C

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  19. Woah you look amazing in this! Really suits you

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  20. another post that reflects my mind. your soul is so inviting because you illustrate yourself with such honesty that always makes me want to be a better person. i have so much love/inspiration to say towards you, but then this comment would be one hell of a long comment! lol

    glad to see you jump out of your comfort zone :) i'm doing the same too!

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