
“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there’s still going to be somebody who hates peaches.” -Dita Von Teese
I've got this written on the back of an old receipt and wedged into my mirror. Lately, I've really been taking a step back from my surroundings and asking myself what do I like instead of what will x like or x say. I've been asking myself what makes me feel sexy, pretty, intelligent, happy, etc. My new found love of garter belts, stockings, and high heels combined with my ever-present love of biographies (Marilyn, Ava Gardner, Vivien Leigh), bold lipstick, poetry, and bubble baths are what make me who I am. So often, I've felt like people or situations were tugging at me, urging me a certain way in both self and in deed, but lately.. I've just stopped letting my surroundings have that sort of effect on me.
I am who I am, and it's okay to take the time to discover what I love, to embrace it, and to really explore and splurge in it. I've always given such considerations to my friends, so why should I expect any less for myself? x
listening to:
dress: Forever21
shoes: Walmart
x,
Amber





















You look gorgeous in that dress!!! You shouldn't do things to please other people, you should do whatever pleases you!! It's nice to focus on yourself because you become much happier!!
ReplyDeleteI hope you have a lovely New Year!!
You go girl! :] Love you. <3
ReplyDeleteYou look like a true sex bomb in those pictures (sorry for the choice of words)!
ReplyDelete-Kati
Those are the most perfect words! :)
DeleteYou are DASHING<3
ReplyDeleteThis is great. I have the same issue, letting people mold me while I protest that it isn't happening. I'm more conscious of it now. That dress is freaking fab, btw.
ReplyDeleteAlways focus on yourself, you beautiful little thing
ReplyDeletePs) I love me some peaches. ;D
I love this.
ReplyDeleteAh I just love that quote!
ReplyDeleteBubble baths definitely make me who I am
You look amazing!! But you can never please everyone, so do what you want and be how you want to be!
ReplyDeleteYou've changed so much. Your look makes you look more grown-up, wiser and even more beautiful and I like it! That quote is awesome too. Happy new year :D
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great post! so glad I stumbled upon your blog! new follower!
ReplyDeletehappy new year!
Saralyn
www.studiomaisonblog.us
This is a hard thing to do, but a great one! This post reminds me of that ee cummings quote...
ReplyDelete“To be nobody but yourself in a world that's doing its best to make you somebody else, is to fight the hardest battle you are ever going to fight. Never stop fighting.”
oh amber, i've miss thee so!! especially your words, so honest and personal. sometimes, i feel like your words describe so well, like you know me or something. true talk. but anyways, that's how i felt throughout 2012 and not until towards the end of the year did i truly and whole-heartedly figure out exactly what i want.
ReplyDeletecan't wait to read more, i feel like i've been gone forever!
Kat
ps. i'm back to blogging :) please visit? http://flightlessdarling.blogspot.com/
Glad to hear you're doing so well! I'm also glad that you're posting her again - I've missed you, Amber!! xo
ReplyDeletelove the makeup especially! all in all, a classic look <3
ReplyDeletehaven't been on blogger too often, but im baaack! great to see you so well :)
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You look great! :)
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I think it's excellent you're taking the reigns of your life and going in a direction you want to go. Keep it up! I love the new glammed-up-vintage-vixen look. It's working for you!
ReplyDeleteyou look lovely in luscious curls and intense red lips :)
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xx
http://epiquemoi.blogspot.com
Ahh you look GREAT in that dress it's perfect on you x
ReplyDeleteI can't tell you how much i LOVE this post amber!! i think I may have gotten a little teary eyed there for a bit. I've been working at self love and personal exxceptance lately, really trying to figure out who I am and really want to be, and this just made me really happy I guess:)
ReplyDeleteThanks girl!
xo, Emily
You are so pretty! I really envy your porcelain doll skin xx
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So pretty!
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davie+erica
LPFashionPhilosophy
Very beautiful!
ReplyDeletexo Jennifer
http://seekingstyleblog.wordpress.com
you look soooo beautiful <3
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